Tag: Contemplation

Tuesday, July 27th, 2010

Run and Hide?

How do you know when you’re running away from a problem instead of solving it? When is a fresh start really the right answer?

My mother is considering selling her townhouse and moving out-of-state. She wants to get a better grip on her finances, which I admire, but she simultaneously wants to avoid a family situation that is upsetting her.

I understand the powerful draw of ‘starting over’ in a new place, meeting all new people, trying to build new routines for your day. But, I also know that you’re stuck with who you are at the fundamental levels. You might be farther away from certain toxic people, but you can’t simply move away from your memories and personality. You’re still you,  just in a different place.

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Friday, March 12th, 2010

Research Topic

I’m about half way through my Information Literacy course and it’s just about time to choose a research topic for my big project. I always hate having to choose a topic to study. It’s difficult to decide on something that I want to learn about in depth. I am curious about a lot of things, but I’m not necessarily excited to spend a lot of time on one thing. Maybe I’ve just become too used to the vague awarenesses that I collect. Is that a feature of our generation? Or is it a feature of my personality? If I feel I know how to acquire additional information on a topic, I often won’t. I could do it in the future if I wanted to, so there’s no need to do it now, right?

So yeah, I have to actually pick something and delve deep for once. I’m contemplating doing something on minimum wage laws. It’s a very contentious issue though slightly less so now, since there was an increase not long ago. I do have to wonder, in this economy, how much pain has the new minimum wage caused? Is it partly to blame for the job losses and underemployed worker levels? Combined with the poor lending climate, can small businesses really afford to keep their staff level steady? If a full time person quits or retires, are they more likely to only hire a part time replacement?

One problem I see with the minimum wage law is that is makes certain wages sound like less. Before the increase went into effect $8.50/hr didn’t sound too terrible as an entry level retail wage. It was several dollars above the minimum! Now, it’s not even $2 above the minimum. I know, it sounds like a silly argument in the grand scheme, but perception and ‘consumer confidence’ has a real effect on the way people operate. There are also a lot of arguments about how higher minimums price low skill workers out of the workforce. If a business is forced to pay $7.25/hr for a worker, they will probably look for a person they feel is worth that investment. Thus the increased minimum sometimes hurts the exact people it is most intended to help.

It does seem like it might be an interesting subject. We shall see.

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Saturday, November 7th, 2009

BlogHer (and stuff)

I’m just not feeling it today, this blogging thing. I don’t have a semi-organized topic and links to share. It’s Saturday, and I’m lazy. My laundry is clean and dry, but not put away. It’s currently getting wrinkly in the baskets I just hauled back from laundry room, hauled down the looooong apartment hallway. Trust me, it is a crazy long hallway.

Can I just ramble a little? Is that alright?

I joined BlogHer yesterday. “The Community for Women who Blog.” Women. Huh.

Woman.

I am one, but I don’t feel like one. I feel more like a gal. Or maybe a chica. A woman is so… feminine and old. Well, older than me anyway. Like 45ish. Anyway, I haven’t found my niche there yet. The money & personal finance section is kinda cool. I’ll probably enjoy the Arts section as well once I get into it. However, a husband & wife duo doesn’t seem to count as a “family” – they’re just a “couple”. The whole place seems very mommy-blogger oriented.

As I get older, I guess that’s something I need to get used to. Once you’re past your crazy 20-something days, the whole world is pretty much mommy/parent oriented.

*sigh*

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Monday, November 2nd, 2009

A Christmas Carol

There are a lot of great literary themes in this world, but one of my very favorites is from A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens.

It is possible to go to bed as one person, and awake the next morning as a brand new person.

What’s not to love about that? I mean, sure, the guy has some horrible and frightening encounters with the spirit world, but he wakes up a changed man! One day everyone thinks he’s a lost cause, and the next he’s out righting his wrongs! Perhaps he only starts doing good things to save his soul from eternal fire and brimstone, but I like to think he truly saw what he was missing – the many happinesses this world has to offer that are not derived specifically from money.

Jon and I were able to see an advance screening of the new Disney version of A Christmas Carol tonight. It’s a decent enough adaptation I suppose, but I can be a tough one to please. After seeing the Muppet version and falling head-over-heels in love with it, every other version can only attempt to reach the high bar it set.

The new Disney movie was presented in 3D, and it was very well done. I’d give that aspect of the film 4.5-out-of-5 stars. The rest, well… the animation style didn’t do it for me, and the voices bothered me quite a bit. Both went back and forth between very realistic and rather cartoonish, and the inconsistency didn’t allow me to maintain my suspension of disbelief. The Ghost of Christmas Past was fascinating, until it spoke, and after a couple of minutes its face really annoyed me. I did enjoy their take on the Ghost of Christmas Yet To Come though. Very cool! I give the overall movie experience 3.25-out-of-5 stars. If you dig 3D, and aren’t as picky about animation and voice acting as I am, you’ll probably really enjoy it!

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